Words from your family, friends or other people you know are often the reason behind your sadness. Words have that power that can either heal or broke someone, so choose words carefully.
You must be thinking that why i shouldn’t listen to what my family or friends are saying? Because often these are the people that tell you, you can’t do something or you can’t become what you want to be. But always remember, you can be anything, you can become what you want to be, it just a matter of hard work and how bad do you want it.
“Just keep moving forward and don’t give a shit about what anybody thinks. Do what you have to do, for you – Johnny Depp”
When you want to build something or become someone then often your family or friends will tell you that you can’t do this, and this kills ones confidence but if you listen to them from one ear and out the other then it will not do you any harm. Not every family or friend are like this, some are supportive and good advice giver. But remember listen to every opinion but in the end do what you want.
2Makes You Sad
Often kids in school get bullied, or sometimes your boss will say to you something bad but you don’t have to listen to all that bullshit. Because you know what? your boss doesn’t know about you and your hustle. Also when somebody tells you, you are not good looking or you are ugly that is just their opinion about what they think about yourself, you don’t have to take it seriously. Again listen from one ear and out the other.
When you somebody tells you something about a thing about which you had a good perception, it shouldn’t change you perception. Such as if someone say building you own empire sucks and you should do 9 to 5 job, it will change your good perception about building something and you will just follow the job in fear of not earning anything. So don’t turn someone opinion into reality.
4Not Taking Risks
Due to what people say, you stop taking risks and just follow the traditional pathway and this is going to harm you a lot in the long-term. Because building something and becoming someone comes with its own perks and it involves big risks. So don’t let people’s opinion change your mind about achieving big things.
Taking risks is a part of life and if you don’t take risks you are not living your life enough. So take risks, even if you fail you will just learn something new or who knows you become an overnight success if you keep pushing.
5Makes You a Loser
listening to what other people are saying about a certain thing will change you perception. So for wining you first need to have a good perception. You need to believe that you can and you shouldn’t listen to all those negative opinions. So next time you do something make sure you do it all by your heart and don’t let someone tell you that you can’t just because nobody has yet done it.